College girls masterbating: what to do when children are caught masterbating
I was reading the newspaper the other day and found and article saying: College girls masterbating: what to do when teenagers are caught masterbating? I found this as something very usual in teenagers, as they are in a life stage where they are discovering their sexuality, as well as their hormones have a very anxious behavior. Being a contemporary mom, I have seen people saying they have caught their college girls masterbating and I understand all of these changes and I was a young girl, I was caught masterbating once because I did not want to have sex with guys at that time, and I felt horrible and so irritated when my mom reprimanded me just because I was doing something…unusual for her.
I have a friend who was caught masterbating too but her mom reacted differently: she talked to her about why she was in need of doing such thing, telling her that it was normal. As parents, we are supposed to be sexually open-minded, meaning that we need to talk, discuss sexual topics with our teenagers, especially if they start going out with other teenagers from the opposite sex. If we were not raised with these values in our own homes (especially because our parents and grandparents tend to be close-minded and so strict a few decades ago).
If you happen to you see your college girls masterbating, you have to sit and talk to them instead of reprimanding them; they need to know that it is normal and that they will feel this “itch” or “urge” occasionally, and may even have wet dreams. Whenever you see your college girls masterbating, tell them not to worry about it but that it’s normal during their life stage and that this is a private thing and so they should not do it in public. Also advice them you will get more information on this if you can to give them additional support. Now, not only teenagers can do it: I know people who have caught college girls masterbating, but they are 7-8 year olds are very interested in health and their bodies and how the body works, so you can come close to it serenely and from this sexually open-minded perspective.
Other option you can count on when you see your college girls masterbating is getting help from the library for books and articles on masterbation in young children; also your church or minister might also have information, however your doctor and library are the best sources. Researchers have found that teenagers who use high sexual content media (internet, TV, certain types of magazines) are more liable to have sex by the time they are 16, than those kids who use the media slighter. As a matter of fact, there are more cases about college guys masterbating than college girls masterbating, mainly because the guys are more exposed and attracted to XXX material. It is thought that one of the strongest protective factors against early sexual behavior is maintaining a clear parental communication about sex, providing truthful answers and making them feel free to ask any questions they might need to ask to be well informed about sexual matters.
There are actually many things that you can use to find the information you need such as the internet, school, parents and pediatricians so you can teach other parents who see their college girls masterbating. So, as I said before, if you happen to see your college girls masterbating, be wise and give them all your support and help.